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If you do something wrong, and no one makes comments to you, it means that they simply waved their hand at you.
I have remembered this lesson for the rest of my life. When you realize that you are doing something badly, but no one tells you anything, this is a bad sign. Maybe you don’t want to hear criticism, but most often we are criticized by those who really love us, who care about us.

Randy Pausch
"Last Lecture"